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Don't worry! 别 and 不要

HSK 2 Unit 5: Skills and advice · Lesson 3 of 5 · About 16 minutes

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Your mission: By the end of this lesson, you can tell someone not to do something with 别 and 不要, reassure someone with 放心, and give friendly warnings.

Warm-up: do you remember?

Two quick questions from earlier lessons. Recalling before you learn makes the new material stick.

  1. Meaning

    What does 外面 mean?

    1. (for long, thin things: fish, roads)
    2. door, gate
    3. outside
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, outside.

    外面 (wàimian) means outside.

  2. Characters

    Which word means “to climb a mountain, to go hiking”?

    1. 爬山
    2. 起飞
    3. 附近
    Show the answer

    Answer: A, 爬山.

    “to climb a mountain, to go hiking” is 爬山 (páshān).

  3. Listening

    From an earlier unit. Listen. What does the word mean?

    Cannot listen? Read it instead

    换 huàn

    1. short (in length)
    2. (prefix for ordinal numbers)
    3. to change
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, to change.

    You heard 换 (huàn): to change.

New words

  • 别biédon't
  • 不要búyàodon't
  • 着急zháojíto worry, to be anxious
  • 担心dānxīnto worry
  • 放心fàngxīnto relax, to be at ease
  • 考试kǎoshìexam, to take an exam

Don't: 别 and 不要

别 (bié) + verb or 不要 + verb tells someone not to do something. Both are common; 别 is a little softer in speech.

  • 别着急!

    Bié zháojí!

    Don't worry! (Take your time!)

  • 不要在这儿吃东西。

    Búyào zài zhèr chī dōngxi.

    Don't eat here.

  • 别担心,我没事。

    Bié dānxīn, wǒ méi shì.

    Don't worry, I'm fine.

别…了 means stop doing it: 别玩了!, stop playing!

  • 别看手机了!

    Bié kàn shǒujī le!

    Stop looking at your phone!

Worry and relax

着急 (zháojí) is to be anxious or in a hurry; 担心 (dānxīn) is to worry about something. 放心 (fàngxīn) is to stop worrying.

  • 你放心,我明天去。

    Nǐ fàngxīn, wǒ míngtiān qù.

    Don't worry, I'll go tomorrow.

  • Not: 你不担心!

    But: 你别担心! Nǐ bié dānxīn!

    Telling someone not to: 别, not 不.

Characters

  • 急 = 心

Open a character to see how it is written, stroke by stroke, with its meanings and words.

The exam is tomorrow

Liu Fang is nervous before an exam. Li Ming tries to help.

Listen first

Play the whole conversation and answer the questions before you open the transcript.

  1. Listening

    Listen first. Why is Liu Fang nervous?

    1. She lost her phone.
    2. She is late.
    3. She has an exam tomorrow.
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, She has an exam tomorrow..

    明天要考试了.

  2. Listening

    What does Li Ming tell her to do?

    1. study all night for the exam
    2. put her phone away and revise more
    3. stop looking at her phone and sleep early
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, stop looking at her phone and sleep early.

    别看手机了,早一点儿睡觉吧.

Show the transcript
Pinyin
Translation
  1. 刘芳

    明天Míngtiān要yào考试kǎoshì了le,我wǒ很hěn着急zháojí!

    The exam is tomorrow and I'm so nervous!

  2. 李明

    别Bié着急zháojí。你Nǐ准备zhǔnbèi了le吗ma?

    Don't worry. Have you prepared?

  3. 刘芳

    准备Zhǔnbèi了le,可是kěshì我wǒ还是háishi很hěn担心dānxīn。

    Yes, but I'm still worried.

  4. 李明

    你Nǐ放心fàngxīn,你nǐ学xué得de很hěn好hǎo。别Bié看kàn手机shǒujī了le,早zǎo一点儿yìdiǎnr睡觉shuìjiào吧ba。

    Relax, you've studied well. Stop looking at your phone and go to bed a bit earlier.

  5. 刘芳

    好Hǎo,谢谢xièxie你nǐ!

    OK, thank you!

Speak: listen, record, compare

Listen to each model, record yourself, then play both and compare: the rhythm, the tones, the vowels. No automatic score: your ear is the judge.

  • 别着急。你准备了吗?

    Bié zháojí. Nǐ zhǔnbèi le ma?

    Don't worry. Have you prepared?

  • 明天要考试了,我很着急!

    Míngtiān yào kǎoshì le, wǒ hěn zháojí!

    The exam is tomorrow and I'm so nervous!

  • 你放心,你学得很好。别看手机了,早一点儿睡觉吧。

    Nǐ fàngxīn, nǐ xué de hěn hǎo. Bié kàn shǒujī le, zǎo yìdiǎnr shuìjiào ba.

    Relax, you've studied well. Stop looking at your phone and go to bed a bit earlier.

Practice

  1. Meaning

    What does 别 mean?

    1. to give, for, to
    2. (measure word for songs)
    3. don't
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, don't.

    别 (bié) means don't.

  2. Characters

    Which word means “don't”?

    1. 散步
    2. 不要
    3. 放心
    Show the answer

    Answer: B, 不要.

    “don't” is 不要 (búyào).

  3. Pinyin

    How do you read 着急 (to worry, to be anxious)?

    1. zháojí
    2. zhàojí
    3. zháojì
    Show the answer

    Answer: A, zháojí.

    着急 is read zháojí. Check the tone mark on every syllable.

  4. Listening

    Listen. What does the word mean?

    Cannot listen? Read it instead

    担心 dānxīn

    1. student
    2. to worry
    3. can, to be able to
    Show the answer

    Answer: B, to worry.

    You heard 担心 (dānxīn): to worry.

  5. Pinyin

    Type the pinyin of 放心 (to relax, to be at ease). Tone marks or tone numbers are welcome.

    Show the answer

    Answer: fàngxīn

    放心 is fàngxīn in pinyin.

  6. Grammar

    Which sentence means Don't worry!

    1. 你不着急!
    2. 别着急!
    3. 着急别!
    Show the answer

    Answer: B, 别着急!.

    别着急!: 别着急: don't worry.

  7. Fill the gap

    Complete: Stop playing games!

    别玩游戏__!

    1. 吗
    2. 吧
    3. 了
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, 了.

    别玩游戏了! 别…了: stop doing it.

  8. In context

    Your friend is anxious about you travelling alone. What do you say?

    1. 你着急吧。
    2. 你别放心。
    3. 你放心,我没事。
    Show the answer

    Answer: C, 你放心,我没事。.

    你放心,我没事。: 你放心: relax, don't worry.

  9. Your turn

    Type the Chinese for Don't worry (with 别 and 担心)

    Show the answer

    Answer: 别担心

    别担心: don't worry.

Reassure a friend

A friend is nervous before something important. Talk to them out loud.

  1. Tell them not to worry, with 别.
  2. Tell them to stop doing something, with 别…了.
  3. Reassure them with 放心.

Sentence frames

  • 别__,你放心!

    Bié __, nǐ fàngxīn!

    Don't ..., relax!

Record your attempt (three and a half minutes at most) and listen back:

Review and finish

Can you do this? If a line feels shaky, go back to that part before you move on.

  • I use 别 or 不要 to tell someone not to do something.
  • I can say stop doing it with 别…了.

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